Somatic Integration & Sexual Rebalancing Guide and Coach
That instinct has taken me on many unexpected journeys to find the deeper meaning in systems, places, and the personal stories people carry. Yet no matter where these questions led, I kept finding the same thing: what we’re shown is rarely the full story.
Several years ago I had a reckoning. I realized I had applied that same curiosity to nearly everything in my life—except one. By all measures I was a healthy woman in my late forties. I had built meaningful things, but I had been living with chronic hip and low back pain for over a decade. Pain that nothing touched—and a growing, disorienting sense that I had lost all direction, purpose, and any real desire to keep going. As a holistic health practitioner, I already understood the body as central to health, which made this all the more humbling.
I felt exhausted, debilitated even—from challenging, painful and even traumatic experiences, from years of pouring creative and emotional energy outward in my work. I had tried everything from traditional medicine to shamanic healing, and nothing seemed to reach it. As a desperate last resort, I turned toward the one place I had spent my life avoiding. I had to take an honest look at my relationship with my own sexuality—the territory most of us are taught to leave out of every healing conversation.
For almost two years I immersed myself in the study of Tantra and neurobiology, a journey that required me to first walk through my own healing and integration. What I discovered was that my relationship to my own sexuality was not peripheral—it was pivotal. It became one of the most direct access points to freeing my body and nervous system from pain, releasing long-held emotional patterns, and restoring vitality.
I began to understand and remember the truth that our sexuality is not separate from healing, creativity, spirituality, or the way we relate to one another. It is one of the primary forces through which life expresses, organizes, and renews itself. And when that force has been shaped by a system that relegates it to the corners of shame, suppression, fear, or fragmentation—personally or collectively—we feel the consequences everywhere.
What I came to see is that while this is very personal, it impacts everything. Something so fundamental to our personal agency has been distorted — the relationship between Feminine and Masculine energies within ourselves, within one another, within the culture and our Earth. What we restore in our body becomes part of a much larger rebalancing already underway.
This is what led me to create Weaving Life, where I now guide people in accessing their nervous system through somatic integration, and invite human sexuality as an essential part of the conversation around healing, wholeness, and growth. Today I work with individuals through private coaching, virtual courses, and immersive retreats, drawing on years of study in Eastern medicine, somatic integration, Sexual Rebalancing, and embodied change.
Even with all of my experience, training, and credentials, I’m still learning and still living this work. What I offer doesn’t come from having it all figured out, but from walking this path myself and sharing what I have witnessed in myself and others in this field—trusting that the outcomes for my clients will be beautifully and necessarily their own.
If any of this resonates, I invite you to explore. And you’re always welcome to reach out.
I’ve had the honor and privilege to travel to and learn from the following Indigenous Nations on Turtle Island (North America).
Osage, Ponca, Tohono O’odham, White Mountain Apache, San Carlos Apache, Northern Cheyenne, Black Mesa Pueblo, Hopi, Zuni Pueblo, Heiltsuk First Nation, Nlaka’pamux, Syilx, Osoyoos First Nation, Nsyilxcin (Okanagan/Colville), Similkameen, Kumeyaay, Secwépemc, Kitsumkalum First Nation, Salish Kootenai, Nimiipuu (Nez Perce), Gitksan, Crow, Piikani (Blackfeet), Shoshone-Bannock, Chippewa, Ohkay Owingeh Pueblo, Neskonlith, Oneida, Lakota, Pascua Yaqui, Diné (Navajo), San Ildefonso Pueblo, Nambé Pueblo, Pojoaque Pueblo, Santo Domingo Pueblo, Yurok, Karuk, San Manuel Band of Mission Indians, Hoopa, Trinidad Rancheria, Tesuque Pueblo, Tsuut’ina, the Stoney Nakoda Nations, Métis Nation, Taos Pueblo, and more.
Whether artists, leaders, business executives, or those on the path to recovery, what they discover tends to move in a similar direction.
“I felt more safety here than in any other therapeutic setting, probably ever. It felt like a genuine starting point for my mind and body to finally come into balance.”
– MP
(client, private coaching)
“With Erin, I didn’t feel like something to be fixed. I felt witnessed, understood, and gently invited into greater alignment with myself. Every goal I came in with was well on its way to completion in only a few sessions.”
– AM
(client, private coaching)
“I finally understand my old operating system and how it was impacting me. I now have so much freed-up energy, a lightness I haven’t felt since I was a kid.”
– NT
(client, private coaching)